The mistery of LOVE

[Profane]

Oscar Wilde wrote 'The mistey of love is greater than the mistery of death'....and I totally agree with him!You know....I'm pretty quick to fall in love with some1 and everytime I'm in love with somebody I lose my head somewhere in the clouds...I mean I can't sleep at night...I can't eat...I just can't get out of my head that person...it usually becomes painfull to me.
My brain chemistry is completely out of order...I'm sad and happy ...scary and excited at the same time....


and u guys....?what about your feelings when you fall in love with somebody???

[Downup]

;) i know what u mean :D

[Karikoga]

You are not the only one. There is no mystery there.....its just your body chemistry playing tricks on you. It's in you design specs and everyone elses.
But forget the chemistry leason. It kills the excitement, the suspense, mystery and yes, the sighs...
Love is like any other emotion, like fear - it's not so much the emotion that matters but what you do when feel it. And according to "Karikoga's Law of Conservation of Emotions" - Emotions can neither be created nor destroyed, they are just channeled into something else. You must not turn that love into hate, or inwards against yourself - intead chnnel it into something more positive - like 3D.
Instead of her sexy curves (which you can't have), think of nurbs and splines and planes. Instead of breasts, nipples and butt, think spheres, vertices, faces and edges. Instead of those long sexy legs, think cylinders and all those nice shapes etc etc....By the time you snap out of it (if ever) you will be ready for another to sweep you off your feet and you are ready to go again - with new lessons in love and 3D - minu the pain...
So good luck sir knight erant, and ride fearlesly to love's rescue, safe in the knowledge that 3D will always be there to cuhion those falls........

[Profane]

at the moment i'd rather kill myself than canalize such a great emotion like love into something like 3d...wich is cool...ok...but....u know....love is love!

[Fusion]

hehe, that won't work no matter how hard you try......but yeah i also know what u mean......it completely screws up your routines and well everything else. It caused me to fail a subject too:( But im done with that, im in love with art now. All it takes is time. I just hope I don't get to the point were i'll want to marry a sketchbook( like I saw in the paper were I guy wanted to marry a robot:haha: ) Now thats just rediculous :lame:

[Karikoga]

Man u sound like you are in serious pain....If there is anything you can do about it, then do it because you got nothing to lose and nothing is worse than regret.
And if not, well you just have to suck it up and let time do the rest.

[Profane]

thanks for the advice karikoga....yes actually i'm in a very painfull situation...hope it's gonna get good

[Fusion]

hey profane......are you with the girl or just know her. It hurts more if you just know her because its like teasing yourself and tricking your mind. If you do then just ask her and hope she's single.....i tried and found out she was taken and that pi$$ed me off to no end:grr: So good luck if your single :)

[Profane]

well...she's a good friend...and i have her always around ...she's my class mate!oh my god....i dunno what to do!!i'm pretty shy....and i'm always so nervous....My mind is full of thoughts....I'm between hell and heaven at the same time...

[Karikoga]

How long have you been friends??

[Fusion]

omg I feel so bad for you......classmate......that is the worst!!! So your a shy guy eh'.......hmmm......well all types of girls like all types of guys. Some girls like shy guys and some like crazed party ppl. You gotta figure out what she likes and adjust. Basically you can never go wrong with a really interested guy.

*all the girls looking at this thread turn your head*

Girls love it when you smile and look really interested. Make sure you always got something to talk about and have a good counter statement to anything she sais. Your lucky your shy because lot of girls don't like guys who over bother them:)

Make sure she notices you noticing her. They like it when there prepared for something. They do like surprises but you better stay safe on this one.

Okay, now since your shy i bet you havent made an impacting first statement did you? Well theres much you can say that will already make her interested. Go up to her and comment on her hair or clother (ex. "I love those pants they look really good on you") or (" I love what you did with your hair, you looks so pretty/cute") When you compliment them, you basically already in :) I used that on this girl I liked and it worked like a charm:cool:

Don't let her loose though, always say nice things and SMILE whenever your around her.......makes her feel comfortable. There are also things you can say to break the ice or continue a conversation like "Damn the weather so cold" .......girls love to talk so thats your key to the door!!

I'll post some more suggestions if you need em' hope you get her.....good luck:dance:

[RickStefani]

I agree but just don't over do it and become a lovesick puppy. That is were it is not good.

[Karikoga]

I totally agree with Fusion on the approach (-probablly except for the I like your pants bit-). But WHY?! It's important to know this because it will help modify your approach when you get stuck.
Girls like being unique. They hate being bunched with the rest of the herd. The hair and pants are good, but to pack a more devastating punch go for the more subtle and not so obvious things. Things that usually people take for granted but something that she personally made an effort on. To her that's the reward.
When she changes perfume, EARINGS!! especially the tiny ones (men always miss out on those), shoes also work well. You can describe a situation you experienced together and then put in the little detail.....just like in 3D :)). Here you friendship will be an asset instead of a liability.
The little things say "I know you and I see you and I like what I see. I keep looking." Now she is gonna go off wondering what else you know. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHOULD YOU SPILL THE BEANS - Phase II
Hitting the bullseye i one thing, maintaining the momentum is another - killer suspense works extremely well. I am not saying you need to stand her up on a date. Keep her guessing and when she thinks she has you, switch the landscape...
Good luck

[Fusion]

Originally posted by Karikoga
When she changes perfume, EARINGS!! especially the tiny ones (men always miss out on those), shoes also work well.

Absolutly right!!!! I don't know why I can't notice but I just can't. My girl got really mad cause I didn't notice. She cut her hair......bearly a difference and I didn't say anything.....she got pissed. Got a new shirt, didn't say anything, she got pissed. Earings, well she didn't get pissed,luckily.......but like how the hell im I supposed to keep track of her wardrobe......girls get millions of clothes and Im supposed to keep track :( Anyway all were trying to say is if she gets something new.....COMMENT ON IT!!!!! Thats another key element that scores big. Girls love to be appreciated.

And another thing, since your the guy, you have to lead.........meaning you start the conversations......you ask her to movies......and you ask her out to dinner. Its actually quite logical considering you want her:) oh and make sure she know you want her ;)

But ya, its not all about looks either. It would definatly help but its not that nessesary. They like kind, sensitive, caring guys. So if your personality is better than your looks, she'll take you......and i hope im not saying that from experience......cause then ill cry :cry: so tell us how it goes and we'll give you some more things to say to her :D

P.S: It definatly looks like your needy so like Karikoga said, don't be asking for sex the first time you get her. Personally, for some reason I didn't even want sex with this girl cause she was so amazing(i know, even I was shocked). You probably feel the same considering we felt the same........damn hormones...... But with any other girl id say 3-4 weeks before you take it to 3rd base.

[RickStefani]

You probably did not want sex because you were afraid you would screw it up. haha, just kidding. When you are asking her out it does help to have a time and a place in mind. Do you want to go out some time does not sound good. Say something like " Have you ever eaten at So and so, and if the answer is yes and she likes it, ask if she wants to go on X night. If it is no then tell her it is great and ask if she wants to go on X night. Either way you are asking her out. You are stepping up to the plate. It can go bad but it could also go great. Another thing is that you can somewhat find out when she is free and get a group of people from the class to go out and then work your magic. I personally like the One on One better. I feel movies are not a very good date. You can not talk. Things like miniture golf and such that cause you to interact are much better. Especially for a first date. Maybe play before dinner that way the ice is broke and if nothing else it gives you something to talk about during dinner.

Just some thought for ya.

[Fusion]

Originally posted by RickStefani
You probably did not want sex because you were afraid you would screw it up.

Actually your kind of right. Not for the girl I really liked, probably because I cared a lot for her......and sex for guys is pretty much just pleasure.......not like love which it is for women. But yeah the first time, your right I didn't because I was afraid id screw up.

Your right on another thing......the movies aren't great for talking ;) but there another way you can break the ice with her. She'll think its a date and after that you can get more serious. And heres an important note......the first date is REALLY important. If it goes well she'll remember and when you ask her out for a second time she'll most likely say yes. Then again she could have a great time and still not be intersted so don't get too confident and ask her anything.......confusing eh? thats women:(

The one-on-one is much better than a group because from my experince its really weird. Actually never go out with her with some of your friends. I remember I went with a group and my mouth was just locked.....i tryed saying something and couldn't cause "they" were all there.

You know how they say just be yourself.......we'll thats the best advice I can give you because it works!! Bend your personality but still be yourself. I was also a shy guy:o and as a shy guy you tend to not say much because you try to hard to say the right thing. But since girls like you to talk, if you act like yourself it wil just flow out. And once your comfortable it will no longer be nerve recking, but a relaxng relationship :dance:

One more thing....don't let her go.....if you really like her that much then just go for it:) You already have the advantage of her being in your class and even a bigger advantage because your friends. Beware though, my friend tried asking out a friend and got shut down. But a still say ask her out because you are going to be really reallly pissed if she leaves:(

[Karikoga]

I juss wanna add a word of caution here gentlemen....don't theorise too much...I have been in situations (yes - plural) when girls want to hit forth base first and go in reverse, when I had this real cool programme planned to the last detail, a month in advance.
I can hear some of you wince, but it ain't that easy to switch from romantic mode straight to bump-and-grind mode - especially when the girl had you believing she was campaigning to be one of Mother Teresa's nuns......

[Fusion]

im with you on that one but I don't think its too often that that happens.......is it:dunno:

[RickStefani]

This is going to sound weird to hear from a guy but if a girl wants it to much then sometimes it can be a turn off but the real reason is that even as a guy we care that her company;) is more exclusive than a trip to disneyland. If you feel anyone can stake a claim and it is first come first serve you really do not feel as special anymore. In least this is how I look at it.

I think Fusion really hit the nail on the head. Be yourself. We can give you guidlines but ti is up to you. And I also have to say he has a great point in not letting it go. If I think about it I can remember the ones that shot me down. Do I care about them? No. The ones I pussed out of. Those I remember and regret. April Jacobson and the girl in the VW bug. Two I will always remember. Even though I cannot remember her name. She was Hot.

[Fusion]

so Rick, your saying that the more your want sex the less the love is? That is a good concept if you relate it to experience.

Ricks right about letting the special ones go. You get so worried that you'll make a wrong impression that you don't make an impression at all and its too late. So the moral of the story is........ASK HER NOW!!! The sooner the better because lifes to short......actually I shouldn't be saying that since im still young but ill bring up that expression in a couple years:) Nevertheless, if you ask her now you'll be able to sleep, eat, and all that other stuff.

Dammit this thread is bringing up hurtful memories......ahhhh.....i need to draw something:ugh:

[Torlok2002]

who else read that title as "The ministry of love"

I was getting scared....
NO! I dont wanna go!

[Profane]

updates:

The facts are these....I really like her....ok.But I started to watch her just because I would had sex with her,now things are changed..I also love her...not only physically u know...something that involves your entire body and mind.
Tomorrow she will come to my house coz she asked me to study phylosopy together....Holy crap...I'm so confused!!I'd like to tell her:'would u mind to have sex with me?'....and at the same time:Uhm...I'm busy today...but we can study philosophy an other day if u wish!'...I can't wait anymore this story is been going on for a month!!

...and now my brain is completly out of order because of the spring season!Damn!!

I need a cigarette!!!I NEED A CIGARETTE!!!! AHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH

[Jason-Lavoie]

I have never been in love... it sounds like crap, but your missing the point. LOve is love, its a "beautiful" thing... it shows that you REALLy care for the person, and basically do any thing for her or him. I do not get why your in such pain, if your in that much pain... then maybe you need some help (joking)

My advice is just meet people, become freinds and then go on from there... :)

[Profane]

WE ARE ALREADY FRIENDs!

[Daniel]

uhm Profane, I wouldn't suggest asking her to have sex with you, but maybe asking her out to do something afterwards would be good. Like you know, we've been studying for a while now, why don't we go unwind and grab a bite to eat, go see a movie, take a walk, that kinda stuff. And in that time you can see if she's interested in you and let her know you are interested in her as well. Your already friends so your half way there, just take the ball and run with it.

[RickStefani]

Just incase you do not already know this and you will think back on it later, this is the best part about dating. Right now. The confussion, the excitement and the joy along with sarrow. All these strong emotions. The excitment you have for going to class to see her. The excitment and nervousness you will feel when she is coming over. If you knew for curtain and it was like a clinical thing it would not be as fun. If you knew you could just say take off you close and get on the bed it would be great for that night but that would be about it. Well mybe a few more nights too but that is not the point.

[Fusion]

yeah, I woudn't ask for sex right off the bat. Take her out to lunch, dinner, movies and then when she's comfortable, ask. Make sure you got trojans to, and if she asks say it was your brothers(the condoms).

As for the studying thing, well that opertunity doesn't get easier than that. This is what you do, start studying and after a while keep looking at her so she'll know whats going on. Then sometime later in the day tell her you like her. If she turns her head away from you then she's not interseted. If she slightly smiles, your pretty much in. If she's riding her foot up your thigh then Its time to kick out the trojans. Actually tell her you love her......they love to hear that cause it makes em feel cared for. But ya, make sure you make your move when your studying, your alone in your house for crying out loud, it doesn't get easier than that honestly........ur lucky for that:)

There are also signs of if she's having a fun time. If she uncrosses and recrosses her legs......its a good thing. If she flips her hair back.....good thing. If she has her heels on and keeps slipping them off.......good thing. If she keeps looking off in space or directly away from your field of view........not a good thing. And there are other obvious ones that I don't need to repeat cause ill leave that up to you.

Hope "studying" goes well:p

[Daniel]

Originally posted by RickStefani
Just incase you do not already know this and you will think back on it later, this is the best part about dating. Right now. The confussion, the excitement and the joy along with sarrow.

oh ya, I gotta say, that is indeed the best part. The feeling of being totally miserable when your totally in love and the girl doesn't give you the light of day. The sleepless nights. You go to bed, you think about her, you wake up, you think about her... That feeling you have that you think your just going to through up.... I love it.

ps. that was sarcasm

:roll:

[RickStefani]

Haha, I think it is anyway.

[lilCara]

I guess I should sleep well at night, these problems shouldn't bother me etc. Just because I'm 14. BUT THEY DO!

Darn, there's a girl in my class, that really has that powah to mess with my mind. She isn't the best looking girl in the world, but she IS pretty, very smart, friendly and makes me feel great when she's around. She already knows I like her, but we're just good friends...

Ok, so here's the problem. From what I see right now, whoever you fall in love with doesn't share your feelings... :roll: She likes another boy... Well, things are complicated... I know that she doesn't like me the way I like her... So I'm VERY confused...

OK, enough about my problems...
So, Profane, I wish you the best of luck tonight... But from the advice you received, there are too many rules, things to do and not to do, I think that you just don't have to pretend. She must like YOU, not the guy you pretend you are. If you end up together for a long period you can't just act like you pay attention to all those tiny details. She must bring a contribution to the relationship, too. But, being men, we gotta make the first step, so be attentive and if she likes you back, everything should work.

I gotta go to school now, so bye and good luck... :D

[Karikoga]

Ay lilCara, are you sure you are 14, coz you sound experienced, very experienced - kids these days...You are right about being yourself and all, but there are certain things that do not change - like paying attention to detail. Women have this habit of constantly testing, checking to see whether their guys are paying attention to them - sometimes it can be down-right cruel. I had this girl once who started commenting on other girl's butts - randomly in the street, just to see what I will say. Whether I will be spontanious or not.
And if you have not been paying attention and you let your neolithic male brain kick in - you will end up in BIIIIIIG trouble. Sometimes its necessary to lie to a girl - BUT more often than not, in order to survive the lie should end up being fact. Now you see how women manipulate men?? :)) And we think we have it all - the initiators e.t.c.
Believe me if a girl is not at all interested, in most cases the pain is not worth it coz she may end up lying to you so you feel better. Soz lilCara I do not mean to dash your hopes - but it don't mean there is no chance.
But these things you learn with experience as you move from one relationship to the next, and as time goes on you get better at it.
So Profane good luck tonight, and if you crash, its a good lesson learnt and get back on the saddle as soon as possible. You don't to live your life crying over spilt milk.

[lilCara]

Ay lilCara, are you sure you are 14, coz you sound experienced, very experienced - kids these days...
Yeap, I'm sure I'm 14. ;)
And, hmm... if you would tell me that when you were in school there wasn't any girl you liked, I wouldn't believe you. It doesn't matter if she was in another class or if she was older. Same thing here :D Just that... I don't know... it's somewhat more than that and it messed with my head a bit too much... :lurve:

[john silver]

damn women and thier daily doubles

[Fusion]

what are you talking about? :dunno: I love women:p Cant live without them:o Its kind of ironic though cause im single right now but we gotta break off sometime right...............right:hmm:

[Daniel]

I feel your pain dude

[Fusion]

:cry: someone cares :cry:

[Fusion]

An animation comes to mind when I think of this thread.......and you never know it might even help you :)

Note:Right click on the link and select Save Target As otherwise it won't work

Hey There Big Boy (http://www.leo3d.com/main/Animation/Anims/HeyBigBoy.mpg)

[Honki]

Ahh the wonderful thing that is love.

Before I met the girl I'm with now, I fell head over heels for this chick that lived down the road from my Fathers house.
I hated Her. But I was deeply in love with her.
She was everything I despised in society.... She was material, superficial, and only cared for herself and how things would benefit her.

But I've found the right woman now. We are getting married next year, & have a beautiful 1 y/o son.
So thing will work out for you, if they did for me.

Anyway, enough about my life.


Welcome to Dr. Honki's School of Love.

Profane....

You guys are already friends.
You don't need a date, It's already set. At your house.
Don't compliment her, dont ask her out, and don't tell her how you feel. She probably feels the same. Chicks these days DON't go over to a guys house to study unless they feel 100% safe and comfortable in their company.
Trust me.

It just sounds like you're both hesitant to make the first move. So you do it. It's easy....

When the time is right & u are both alone, grab her hand.
If she holds your hand, you're in.
If she pulls away, she obviously doesn't feel strongly enough about you.

From there, you know where you stand with her. So if it's good news, let the dating begin.

[Fusion]

Well I live in Canada, you live in Australia, and Profane lives in Itali, you still think its a universal thing? Im not experienced with........um.....out of towners, so I don't know what the culture is like. But maybe its different in all parts of the world, which I strongly think it is with some similarities....of coarse:)

Honki, you already have a son before being married?!? *shakes head* I hope your not christian :o :)

So Profane whats going on, havent heard from you in a while, hope its cause your got with her and taking her out or staying at her house :p Give us some good news!! ;)

[Profane]

no guys...actually it's because things went wrong...well actually it's not my fault....she loves another guy....I was so sad that I couldn't even write it down on here....

[Fusion]

Oh don't worry, its no problem, the next thing you got to do is rub out this "guy". I charge 10,000 per hit but for you I'll make it free :evil: You'll be with her in no time!! :D

But seriously, I couldn't think of a more painful way of taking the news. She's at your house.....studying.....and she rejects you.....I wonder what would hurt more........that or a bullet to the face? See if you turn that around and put a bullet in his face.......well everybody's a winner......pretty much :) Call me if you need assistance......1800-1-HITMAN :cool:

Hope that makes you feel better:)

[Honki]

Honki, you already have a son before being married?!? *shakes head* I hope your not christian
Yep, I got a son before being married.
Nope, I'm not christian.
It was one of those things that happened accidentally & couldn't be helped. But definately no regrets.

See if you turn that around and put a bullet in his face.......well everybody's a winner
Damn!!!! I hope you aint christian either!!


Profane:
Don't worry about it bro. There's plenty more chicks out there.

I don't mean to dampen your spirits even more, but this is gonna happen to you again, and again, again and again....
As it happens to all of us when we were young.
Sorry, but thats just the way things happen.

I recommend fully justifiable comfort sex with a complete stranger.

[Fusion]

Originally posted by Honki
Damn!!!! I hope you aint christian either!!

Hitman 47 was christian and he still murdered people.....there might have been a good reason for it but killing is killing.

You said "its" going to happen again and again and again......are you talking about love? Cause I only felt like that about one girl, the rest of them were just girls I was interested in. Don't mean to bust your spirits but I doubt thats going to happen anytime soon:( Ah well, there's got to be other grls you like around your area.

[Karikoga]

Profane...piece of advice, don't let her see you sulk over her or she will tap-dance on your newly dug grave - if I may call it that. A good word from the late "Q" from James Bond - "You should never let them see you bleed". What you need right now is to resurrect...hold your head up high, chest out, suck it up and move on with your life.
I once heard that guys only fall in love once....or is it that their hearts can only break once. Though it may happen again and again, each time your armer gets reinforced.
Keep her as a friend but look elsewhere for that kind of affection coz u won't get it from her.....
The alternative - you will be just another head on her trophy wall, on display for her friend's consuption for history's sake - the little little dear that almost could...
You need and have to, BY YOURSELF NOW, define your friendship and figure out what it's all about, the sooner the better.

[john silver]

to clarify my damning of women, I gave this chick 3 pink roses for valentines day. because A. my friends said it would be awesome. B. I was slightly intoxicated. C. she's nice and cute and shy and smart.



well ****, two ****ing months later not a ****ing word. hmmm I am in this state of wanting to rage at her, but that would be ****ing stuipid, like amazingly stupid even for me. So tommorow, I go to her sober, without listening to flight of the valkries beforehand, and nicely, without swearing ask, why don't you have the common courtesy to say "I hate you, **** off, and drop dead." damn this isn't going to go well.

oh well.

p.s. profane i feel for you. Go beat up that other guy. If you don't believe me watch fight club

[TheOne]

i absolutely agree with you profane...
its the same thing with me, when i fall in love with s.o. :D

[Ironbuket]

to clarify my damning of women, I gave this chick 3 pink roses for valentines day. because A. my friends said it would be awesome. B. I was slightly intoxicated. C. she's nice and cute and shy and smart.

well ****, two ****ing months later not a ****ing word.Did you give them to her in person, or by mail or something?

I have a similar story from this valentines myself. I skipped work in the morning and went down to where this girl I really like works. I gave her a single red rose and there actual more to tell, but its too long. Suffice to say it was mega romantic, and took me about 2 weeks to setup.

Anyway, the next week we are sitting around with friends and the topic goes to valentines day and if you did anything special. It came around to me and I started to say what I did, but she kinda cut me off and pretty much said I was lying in front of everyone.

After that I didn’t know where I was. I get mixed messages from her, sometimes shes really friendly to me, and then other times its like she cant stand me. I havent worked out yet if she wants me to leave her alone or not, maybe she hasn’t either

[john silver]

no I didn't give them to her in person, it is beocoming clearer and clear to me that I should have had the balls to give her them in person. Also I know she got them, I've got an inside man or something like that.

[Ferry P]

I sorta broke up yestarday evening after a 3,5 years realtionship.
It isn't very clear what we both want though.
We really love eachother and never had fights...and we hate to break up but there just something missing...the tension or whatever...i dunno.
We now compromised not to talk to eachother for a couple of weeks and see how we miss or don't miss eachother.
Right now I can only miss her like hell, remember only the great things...vacations and stuff, the laughing, the s*x.
it's pretty hard atm. :(

[Karikoga]

...DAMN!!! ..... Such misery out there :(
Yo EF_studios, I was in the same shoes some months back - (more than 12 or 18 - hell who keeps count.. )....Anyway, now she is back to haunt me...and I only pray my shield holds coz I am in no mood to run that gauntlet again....Yes I loved her like hell when she decided she wanted to be free and live alone to persue a career and I wasn't registering on her radar screen...(perhaps I was running in stealth mode without realising it :)).
Anyway there is someone new and is a lot of fun - however she is vouched for.
But gentlemen the law of the jungle rules. Life ain't fair. The better horns win. I WILL - or rather - I AM STEALING HER. For the other guy - no hard feelings, nothing personal - he just happened to have what I want and I am taking....!!!
So for all ya'll with girls out there be careful, she may end up "studying" at my place - permenantly.

[Jake The Snake]

John Silver I feel for you and i'll help you find some girl

[john silver]

thank you jake the snake, i need some girl, anything damnit something is missing from my life. Video games and 3d combined used to be an unstopable force of goodness, but now it isn't as good. It's missing something, a girl perhaps, and porno doesn't cut it anymore, it's boring to me now. God help me!

[RickStefani]

Haha, john silver. I have seen those signs your avatar is made after. I thought it was a joke the first time I saw them in a picture.

[-En-]

Silver - It sounds like that girl you gave the flowers to may not like you, as much as it sucks I think you'd best move on. But on that whole "needing something more" thing. Maybe its not JUST women, maybe you should do something other than just 3D and videogames. You know, get out on the weekends. Hell, while your at it you might meet a girl. Its tough to meet people sitting at home playing videogames and modeling.

BTW: Rick that was one of the most random posts I've ever seen.

[john silver]

-EN-, you're wrong, imagine I have a 32 sided round hole in my life. Girls happen to have 32 sides. It fits, but what you're saying I should do is put a 4-sided fithagon into that hole. No it doesn't work for me. Get out on weekends? I do, it's called work.

[Jake The Snake]

-En- you have no room to speak John gets out way more than you do and at least he tries for a girl i haven't seen you try once

[RickStefani]

I am sure. You have to know that those signs are to warn motorists that Mexicans running across the border my run onto the freeway. In the real ones the little girl is actually up in the air being dragged by her arm. They are on the 5 freeway in San Diego.

I feel for you. There is not much you can do. I would not ask for a response. I would let it go. If she really did not like you as a friend she would have told you off.

Put the shoe on another foot. What if a girl you considered a friend was to give you flowers. You would not want to be mean to her and you would feel bad about turning her down because you would care.

[Ironbuket]

Ive seen those Mexicans running down the middle of the freeway, but that was when I was there years ago. I thought they dont let them just run through the checkpoints anymore?

And about getting out and finding a girl. If the dating/clubs thing isnt for you. Have you considered doing some kind of nightschool course. Pick something that you might actually be interested in and thats also likley to attract a lot of women. Im considering joining a salsa class at the same school I already go to my Japanese at nights. I am useless at dancing, so its always something I wanted to learn anyway.

[RickStefani]

That is some of the best advice I have ever heard.

[-En-]

I reread my post and I think it may not have come out how I intended. I wasn't making fun of silver. I just meant that maybe this one specific girl won't work out. Silver said that all he did was 3D and videogames, All i meant was that if he did some other, more social stuff he will probably meet a girl. (and i know where he works, does he really want to date a girl he meets there?)

[Ironbuket]

I think dating people where you work is a bad idea. When some of the lesser things that can go wrong is you get fired, do you really want to risk it?

But, then when has logic ever stopped someone in love

[-B-]

True, I know John really well, and it would be progress, major progress mind you, if he were able to get with anyone. Especially the girl he gave flowers to. He could make fun of -EN- for ages if it worked out, but he doesn't have a ****ing chance, because he's such a *******. No really, I'm not being mean here. He really is not nice to people. He hates most people, because well, who knows. Probably because they're *******s to him. So anyways he'll try, really hard, I mean really really hard not to swear or be an ass, but he'll lose concentration and it'll happen anyway. It's kind've comical, and sad at the same time. The really funny part is, is that he knows he's going to screw up beforehand so he's like pre-pissed going into it. Which makes it worse of course, so then he's pissed about being pre-pissed and it snowballs until he's like a seething cauldron of hate. Damn.

[Honki]

-B- : Damn Bro!

I have a 32 sided round hole in my life. Girls happen to have 32 sides.

Dont worry man. My Ex Girlfriend has 64 sides.


BIG ones.

[john silver]

wait, what does that mean? that she has big boobs?

[Ironbuket]

You lost me too, I have no idea what hes on about.

I think it was meant to be a joke of some kind

[Honki]

wait, what does that mean?

She got BIG :eek:
Real Big.

[lilCara]

lol, that figures...