Girl Problems

[MonteCristo]

Originally posted by claWda
what's with half the people on this board telling him to ask her out while you yourselves in real life would've just done nothing?

we all know how hard it is we're all afraid of getting rejected so what's with the "you got nothing to lose" attitude, it's flat out DIFFICULT to ask a girl that you're really into out, lay off the bull****, please

Hey no disrespect to my man Clawda, you KNOW, I've always had respect 4 ya, (even when others haven't) but I have to disagree with you so much here. Or at least, I have to say this...

It shouldn't be difficult to ask a girl out. It's really as easy as saying,"Hey, I was wondering if you'd like to go out sometime." Of course you can always get to know her better first. He-he. But you shouldn't have too much of a problem.

The reason it can SEEM difficult is because you haven't settled a score with yourself. You are lacking a confidence somewhere with your own character. Beacuse of this, the fear of rejection seems like a big deal. Well, the simple fact is, she just may not be attracted to you. She might not think like you, and therefore not be attracted to you. She might not find you attractive, for a variety of reasons.

Have you ever heard known of girls that your friend/s thought were attractive, but you couldn't see it yourself? Does this make that girl ugly? Of course not, she's just not your type, or whatever, right...?

Well, it works both ways...

So ask her out. Maybe she says yes. Then cool, you win. She says no... So what? move on, you're not a loser or anything negative, because someone didn't want to go out with you. You don't have much to lose.

However, Snap, IMO I think you need to be concerned with wanting to beat a guys face in because he's in a PLAY where they are ACTING, and he get's to kiss her. You wanna kiss her? Ask her out, then maybe you'll get to. If not, move on dude, there'll be others.